From Father Steven - October 13, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • October 11, 2024


 

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters, 

 

I was thinking about the episode in the Gospel of Mark where the man named Jairus approaches Jesus and says, “My little daughter is at the point of death. Come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be made well, and live.” On his way to Jairus’ home, Jesus is pressed by the crowd, but suddenly feels power go out of him. He discovers that it was a woman who suffered from hemorrhaging for many years and who had faith that if she only touched Christ, she would be healed. Jesus will tell her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace, and be healed of your disease.” When Christ finally makes it to Jairus’ house, he enters, and heals Jairus’ daughter by grasping her hand and saying, “little girl, I say to you arise.”

 

What these two miracles share in common is that they show that when we allow Christ to speak to us and to touch us, we give him the chance to heal us. This healing is not simply physical, because Christ’s deeper mission is to heal our souls. But it is through that physical contact with Jesus that we receive spiritual healing. You may be saying to yourself, “it would be nice to have the chance to meet Christ as the people in the Gospel did, so that Christ could heal me too, but he’s not around anymore…” But the truth is that Jesus has left his Church and the gift of his seven sacraments as his way of reaching out and touching us, to continue to heal us even today.

 

Perhaps you have not had the chance to receive certain sacraments, like confirmation or Holy Communion. It could be that you thought there was no longer a chance to do so. But the Church, knowing how important it is for you to let Christ into your life to touch you and heal you, provides proper preparation to receive the sacraments that you still need. Here at IC we are starting again our RCIA (Rite of Catholic Initiation for Adults) classes, where you will be able to dive deeper into the teachings of the Church and, with the help of our Catechists, come to a closer relationship with Jesus Christ, specifically through the sacraments. The classes are beginning this week and will be every Monday at 6:30pm. Please contact the parish office if you are interested.

 

However, it may be that you have already received all of your sacraments and may feel out of touch with Jesus; that your relationship with God is not very strong or that the sufferings and difficulties in your life keep you from sensing that He is really present. Then perhaps God is calling you to attend our Catechesis for adults and youth on Mondays and Thursdays at 7:30pm in Meehan Hall. This week especially you are invited to come, because we are arriving at the heart of the Catechesis and it is by attending these talks that Jesus wants to speak to you, to reach out and heal you by assuring you that He loves you.

 

You may be tempted to think that given what you’ve received already, you do not need anymore help, that you are in a good place in your spiritual life. But our conversion is ongoing; Jesus Christ is always on the move and never desires for us to settle. He wants you to go deeper and to come nearer to him. You could say that we are like sick patients who after periods of remission, experience a relapse of our spiritual sickness. Jesus Christ, the Divine Physician, is providing these Catechesis as a strong remedy to heal and restore you. Do not pass up the chance for Christ to speak to you, to touch you and to provide you with great healing.

 

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

 

From Father Steven - August 30, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • August 28, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, I was very happy that I finally had the opportunity a month ago to speak about vaping addiction among the youth. Today, I would like to speak about addictions in general that affect and hurt our families, parish, community, and, above all, ourselves. First of all, it is important to understand that usually no one likes to have an addiction. Substance abuse is not something a person simply chooses to become trapped in. Rather, very often, it is the only resource that a person finds in their struggle. The other day, I was talking to a social worker at the hospital about how we have lost so many of our coping skills. We no longer have the resilience that we used to have in the past. Addiction is often more than a bad habit or a lack of willpower. For many people, it can be connected to pain, trauma, loneliness, or an attempt to cope with difficulties they do not know how to face in healthier ways. Therefore, it can often be understood as a cry for help from someone who is suffering. Once we understand that people may turn to drugs, alcohol, or other substances in an attempt to relieve their pain, we also need to recognize that repeated substance use can produce real changes in the brain and body. A person can develop tolerance, dependence, and powerful cravings that make stopping extremely difficult. This is why addiction cannot simply be reduced to a lack of willpower. What may have begun as an attempt to cope with pain can eventually become a dependency that is very difficult to overcome without help. Anyone who suffers from substance abuse does not need judgment, but love and compassion. As Catholics, we believe that love conquers all things. We also believe that for God, nothing is impossible. Therefore, if there is someone in your family, in your circle of friends, an acquaintance, or even a stranger, let us go the extra mile and be compassionate. Christ does not abandon the person who is suffering. He goes out of His way to bring love and consolation, like the Good Samaritan. He certainly suffers with that person. If Christ does this for us, how can we, as His disciples, do anything less for those who are suffering? The more involved I become in helping people here in Marlboro, the more I discover the many resources available through the city and other agencies. I will try to pull together a sheet with different resources in the community and leave them in the church for those who need them. If someone struggles with alcoholism, drug or medication abuse, or some other sort of addiction, YOU ARE NOT ALONE…and YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE ALONE. God wants to help, and so do we. It is okay; we all have problems, and the solutions at times can seem so far from our reach that we give up. Maybe now is the time to get up and start walking back to the Father’s house, like the Prodigal Son. Maybe now is the time that, together, we will overcome the struggles that lead to addiction.  I invite everyone in our parish to join us for the Overdose Awareness Day ceremony here at the Immaculate Conception Church on Monday August 31 at 7:15pm. Let us come together to remember those whose lives have been lost (you may bring their picture), support those who continue to struggle, and pray for their families and loved ones. Always count with your prayers to you and your loved ones, God bless Fr. Steven

From Father Steven - August 23, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • August 19, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, I hope you are enjoying your summer! I, along with some of the youth of our parish, attended the Steubenville East conference in Springfield a few weeks ago. It is a 3 day catholic conference for high school teens to encounter Christ through eucharistic adoration, the sacraments and dynamic sessions all produced by Lifeteen and Franciscan University. The conference was attended by thousands of youth from all over New England with the hope to ignite life long discipleship in our teens. We have asked one of our youth to share with you a bit of his experience. Please see the letter written by Gabriel Torres below. God Bless, Fr. Gabriel ——————————————— Hello and Happy Sunday, or whenever it is that you read this. I am Gabriel Torres and I am a part of the youth group here, at Immaculate Conception. We, the youth, Fr. Gabriel, and a handful of chaperones recently attended a life changing 3 day Steubenville conference in Springfield. And when I say life changing, I really mean it. I thought the same as you, when Cecilia, our religious education director told us about it. I wanted to go, but was kinda doubting that it could be that fun and life changing, as it is a big statement. I thought that it would just be us, listening to priests talk about Jesus, and I would have gone for that, but it turned out to be so much more. On the first day after the first talk and mini worship concert (with a mosh pit and everything), we were asked to come up with one word to describe how we felt about the conference so far. The word that I chose was Connection. And I still agree, and I think anyone that went would agree. Just feeling the connection between yourself and the Lord, and how that connection spread between each signing heart was just purely gorgeous and fulfilling. Seeing thousands of youth come together and praise the Lord was inspiring. The conference was fun with singing and dancing breaks, with people trying to be as close to the music as possible, and games that got the whole center laughing, all the way down to the serious moments when the speakers were speaking the truths of our hearts. The way that you could just raise your hands and pray to the Lord without having to worry what others might think, but instead feeling the connection to those around you and feeling how through God we were all connected, loved, and worthy, brought tears to even those of us who ‘never’ cry. There was just a rawness at this conference that I have never felt anywhere else. So, if you are a youth, teen, or know someone who might be interested in this conference, I encourage you to come next year. If you have friends that are not fully in the faith, or are Christian and not Catholic, invite them. A Christian teen that I got closer to at the conference told us on day one that he didn’t fully understand everything we did or why, but that he believed in Jesus Christ and that he wanted to follow Jesus, wherever it took him. And that was here. Thank you to all who donated to make this possible, and thank you for allowing us to experience the Lord in a new way. Thank you, and God Bless you all. Your brother in Christ, Gabriel Torres