From Father Steven - June 9, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • June 7, 2024

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

 

Please see the letter below from Fr. Gabriel.

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

 

Leading up to my ordination, I was thinking back to my earliest memory of me ever considering the priesthood. I was probably no older than five or six and my father was asking my brothers and I what we wanted to be when we grew up. When it was my turn to respond, among wanting to be an astronaut, an artist and a pilot, I said I wanted to be a priest and to also get married. My Father then explained to me that I couldn’t become a priest and get married, but that if I did become a priest I would have many spiritual children in the Church. And now here I am some twenty years later, a newly ordained priest.

 

This memory and the last months in the seminary led me to reflect on the fatherhood of St. Joseph and his parallels with that of the priest. He was called to be a father who lived in continence and his child would not be of his own flesh and blood, but his fatherhood was nonetheless very real. And it doesn’t stop there, but as Saint Bernadine of Siena says, “he was chosen by the eternal Father as the trustworthy guardian and protector of His greatest treasures, namely, His divine Son and Mary, Joseph’s wife.” And so too the priest is entrusted with God’s greatest treasures, Christ in the Eucharist and the Church as a spouse, of whom Mary is the greatest image.

 

But thinking about this, rather than leaving me afraid of this responsibility, consoles me, because what also comes to mind is that even though he was not born without sin as were Mary and Christ, the Lord chose St. Joseph as the head of the Holy Family. Was God being irresponsible, could he not have fashioned someone faultless to do the job? But here we touch the mystery of God’s love; He entrusts us with precious gifts even when we are undeserving of them to discover that He loves us in spite of our sins. And by discovering his mercy, generosity and just how precious are the treasures He gives us, we are compelled to turn away from whatever keeps us from Him.

 

This leads me to see the priesthood as God’s way of sanctifying me. That as God led St. Joseph to holiness through his unique role as a father, the Lord desires to do the same with me by taking the Church as my spouse, with all of her children as my own through the priestly role as father. I cannot help but hear the words of the angel who spoke to St. Joseph as if they were addressed to me, “do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife.”

 

Although it has been only two weeks since I’ve been ordained, I have already been met with incredible warmth and gratitude. I am deeply grateful to all of you here at IC for your gifts, prayers and support. I have been moved by everyone’s excitement. But above all I am moved by what it stands for. It is evident to me that your happiness, more than simply being for my new life, comes from seeing my vocation as a testimony to the fact that God has not abandoned us. On the contrary, He continues to bring us his salvation and the forgiveness of sins. Your joy that has been expressed in heartfelt greetings, smiles and applause, I believe, really comes from knowing that Christ is still among us, shepherding his flock and leading it to heaven through the gift of the priesthood. I cannot thank you enough for your generosity and prayers. I look back with fondness at my diaconate year and look forward with eagerness to starting here as a priest.

 

Yours in Christ,

Fr. Gabriel Malachi Hanley

 

By Father Steven Clemence September 26, 2025
Dear Brothers & Sisters, Believe it or not, it’s almost October already! We see the leaves changing colors, apple-picking season beginning, and pumpkins already appearing. We also know that October is the month of the Rosary (and of Pro-Life as well). The feast of Our Lady of the Rosary, on October 7th, is one of the most important celebrations we have in October. Since the Rosary is so central for us Catholics, this day is very special. This week, Pope Leo XIV has asked all Catholics to pray the Rosary daily during the month of October for peace. “I invite everyone, each day of the coming month, to pray the Rosary for peace—personally, in the family, and in community,” he said. Here in the parish, we will have a day of prayer for harmony in our nation and peace in the world on Wednesday, October 22nd 7:00am—7:00pm in the Upper Church. We will have a period of Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament and conclude with praying the rosary together. In the midst of so much senseless violence here and abroad, we must turn to Christ. During His time, Israel was occupied by the Romans. There was much tension, conflict, and animosity. In the midst of all that, Jesus told his disciples, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Mt 5:44). He did not command us to take up arms or to respond to violence with more violence. Love is the only response to evil. In WWII, and throughout history, we saw testimonies of thousands of martyrs who chose love over their own lives. Only love can change the heart of man. Much can be said and argued in the polarized world we live in, and in the face of so many inequalities. If God makes the sun rise over the good and the wicked, and the rain fall on the just and the unjust, why should we not do the same? If we are children of God, we are called to be like our Father (Mt 5:45). This is His will: to love one another as He has loved us (Jn 13:14). October is also the month of Pro-Life. As I write every year, to be Pro-Life does not mean to care only for babies. It is not merely an anti-abortion movement either. As the term itself says, Pro-Life means to be in favor of LIFE. It does not matter when or who…life is life. There is a phrase we often use: “from conception to natural death.” It means that we are all called to care for each other from the time we are conceived until the Lord calls us to His Kingdom. Yes, it includes fetuses, babies, children, teenagers, young adults, adults, and the elderly, from all financial, racial, and cultural backgrounds. In short, we are called to LOVE ONE ANOTHER PERIOD! There are no but’s or if’s. The call to love does not mean that we have to like others or even agree with their positions. Love means love. And in case someone still wonders about the true meaning of love, just look at a crucifix, or reflect on everything God has done for us.  This month, we will have a bassinet at the entrance of the church to support Birthright. This non-profit group offers love, friendship, and support to women who are pregnant or think they may be pregnant. Birthright is interdenominational and is not involved in any political activities or lobbying. Its focus is on loving the mother, reminding her that there is hope, and ensuring she is not alone. They provide information about pregnancy, childbirth, adoption, community programs, and childcare. They also offer referrals for public assistance, medical support, financial resources, housing, legal aid, and social services. Finally, they provide free pregnancy tests and maternity and baby items. The bassinet will be there if anyone would like to donate diapers, baby items, most needed items include “onesies”, sleep and play outfits (size 0-9 months) snowsuits, jackets, sweaters, receiving blankets, diaper bags and crib sheets. Birthright is located across the street in the Victoria building. You can also visit their website to learn more about their mission. Many of their volunteers are our parishioners, and they make a huge difference in people’s lives. As Saint Mother Teresa says, “Not all of us can do great things, but we can do small things with great love.” So let us love greatly…and pray the Rosary so that more people may know this love! God Bless, Fr. Steven
By Father Steven Clemence September 19, 2025
Dear Brothers & Sisters, Please see the letter below from Stacey Militello from Saint Vincent de Paul. They are doing so much to help those in need in our area. Please support their Friends of the Poor Walk next Saturday. If you can’t join the walk, please consider donating to them. Every donation is very much appreciated. God Bless, Fr. Steven